best frend dilema

[1_sxc_chick]

i have my friendz and i have my closer friendz... l8ley i have been confused because they act as though i dont exist...when ever im talking 2 one ov them another comes and pushes me aside...somethimes litterally hurting me...but most of the time only hurting me inside...for ages i have ignored it and jus kept my feeling bottled up...but the other day i jus broke down and started crying in the middle of class...the next thing i knew every1 waz my friend...! i always feel like im there for decoration...and then as soon as somethings wrong everybody noices me... my ex-best friend...used 2 not go past me without talking 2 me...now she doesnt even say hello...oh...except after i tell her that im doing some paid modeling work...there is a person that sayz she iz my 'bestest buddi'...but she never tlks 2 me...

are these people useing me? do they hate me??? :confused: :confused: or is this a stupid thing 2 get upset over???

[yarnellcg17]

People find new friends all the time day in and day out..it's a thing that is on going thru out our lives and it has it's ups and downs..

The one thing you don't want is for your older friends to hurt you emotionally or turn you an emotional wreck with the newer friends they have come just come across..and take you for granted.. it wouldn't be fair..let alone right..

Also in their time with their newer friends..they need to not forget about you as well..they need to show equal time with you.. as they are giving to them

( it shouldn't be 75% more talk with new compared to maybe the 25% talk they are only now giving you ) and that isn't right nor fair either..

[JsWoman]

I don't go to school, anymore, but I know that if I had this issue, I would be upset about it, too. It's not a silly question or worry or feeling. If you feel the need to ask, then there is an issue that needs to be worked out.

You say your ex-best friend, and your supposed bestest buddi really only pay attention to you when you get a paid modeling gig? They aren't friends with you, at all, if that is the only time they do pay attention to you. My suggestion, if these are the people you are hanging out with, dump them and find people that really care about and respect you. People that are your friends don't push you out of the way while you're in the middle of a conversation to talk to the person you were talking to, or forget that they were talking to you once someone else shows up.

Also, you shouldn't have to be hurt by a friend. Yes, there will be times where you're going to get into fights, but that's normal in any relationship. Take my advice and dump them before you get hurt even more. There have to be people where you are that will like you for who you are and not continually disrespect you like that.

[amphethead]

It seems that you,ve come to one of those moments in life that stink, namely, people who are supposed 2 b your m8s, who cant see past their own petty jealousy & insecurity to c that they are still ur m8s,and if there not then they were never really friends.

[XeroFF7]

whos Care anout a bunch or low lives at school if ur a model go out to parties and make new friends that what i would do...but my girlfriend is my bestfriends so i gots nothing to worry about...and highschool sucks any way wait till college it is awesome....and those people are ur tru friends cause they dn't like the drama

[queeny]

one word. RETARDS find som1 worth ur time, cos they obviously arent.and if u need sumtin 2 make u feel betr, u cd always throw a brick at there car if they own 1, n if they dont, throw a brick at there pet, if they dont own one of them, then just throw a brick at there face.thatll stop em.

[yarnellcg17]

I don't really think any of your suggesions are going to help the situation queeny..Doing violents acts doesn't solve a thing..and pushing those type buttons of action will only get you nowhere..Except if one would prefer a new home ..where they wouldn't want to be in the 1st place for doing it and a new wardrobe of not your choosing ..due in part the color maybe orange..

[XeroFF7]

i dont know i like queeny's brick idea you can never go wrong throwing a brick it lik a man with 2 knives he is always happy :) :p